i was blindsided by my sons dad, after telling me I couldn’t see my son cos of HIS weekend plans. then friday, he retracted that(probably realizing he cant get stupid plastered with a 6 year old, without our son narcing to me, & gave me my son for the entire weekend.
blessing right? its halloween weekend. yes, a blessing but way overwhelming. from seeing my son for a few hours on a Sunday to three days.
guess i like bitching. no, im mentally ill. i loathe that this whole weekend ive woken up in panic at a way too early hour for three days. took my lasy vyvanse (which was already a 1/2 capsule from yesterday)a few moments ago, coffee in hand while i chainsmoke.
my bf last night made our halloween awesome fun. no stressors or horrid rushing that i had grown accustomed to, by my sons dad. EVERYTHING was drama and ALWAYS my fault with my ex. mental health was just me making shit up to snap out of.
until i told him about how i was incestually raped. after that our marriage was over. we both knew we couldn’t live with that. that was mine to keep in a shell away from anyone. esp him. though we held on to “marriage” for an additional 6 years after that.
did i mention how many suicide attempts in those six years? did i mention that six years i was belittled and tossed aside by the man who once “loved” me. did I mention his father believed mental illness was also made up? did i mention that my ex was/is transgender? hes called a flopper. which goes back/forth from male to all out girl then back to male wheb realizing they cant come out as a girl? did i mention my support for him when he was happiest as a girl? but my rape was his cross?
nah, he already has crosses, i just thought i could share mine.
my bf father phoned him stating that his gf had a heart attack and would love our support 4 hours plus from here? i realized I couldn’t go without meds. shit my bf can’t afford it. but i told him to go cos now he can actually be alone with his dad to ask for money we horribly need. then, the reality set in, he had intended it all along solo. who will watch our cat? im not letting anyone in this house. id be cleaned out of every med on hand. (muscle relaxers and some pain killers ive kept for bad days, which i wont just travel with baggies of marked meds-some scripted, most not-to me)plus my journals. yea fuk that.
also fuk ny bf. he knows i cant be alone without meds. well he knows or possibly forgot, being he suffers post combat ptsd. two loonies trying to live all normal. i remind him of his meds twice daily or he will forget. meanwhile i forget mine EVERY day. our hours arent the same for meds, or id take mine also.
im fukn terrified. i dont know what to do. yes, these three days ive awoken on my own at the buttcrack but immediately followed by a vyvanse. none left. even if my doc hooked me up with my script early tomorrow what about the cat?
our neighbors happen to be my bfs best friend growing up.all their kids are doped up by docs. the 13 yr old just got upped to 100mg vyvanse. the girl can’t weigh 100 pounds. i shared my concerns but all they see is a chick who asks for some pills. ive been having to calculate capsules in halves trying not to spill just to take one two times a day. ive explained time and again why my pills dont make the entire month. (everyone loves recreational use of adderall or vyvanse-easy money for the unemployed) but also big mistake come months end.) im just a junkie to them. no, i actually NEED them everyday. if i dont have them withdrawal from amphetamine is not fun. but thats just me being a good ol junkie. fukrs, im nearly 40, not my first rodeo but how do i explain to my bf we cant smoke ciggys or eat cos i need my pills more. every month the argument of dont sell them, yet hes got buyers in line by the time i bring my script home.
im stuck out in the middle of nowhere and he wants to leave me here. unmedicated and no car. how selfish of me right?
im imploring my neighbor for help but shes dead set that soc knows best for her kids. fine, i get it. but doc also says weekend free of pills (basically putting a kid through withdrawal on weekends) so that leaves 16 pills that arent needed but she can give me 2? i know she needn’t give me any. my fault not hers. but as much as i reach out-its a junkie talking to her.
i dont know what to do. im just not good to be alone yet. but when will i? my bf has amazing capability of out of sight out of mind. its part of his coping but that includes me. once hes with his dad or anyone, until i call im nonexistent.
i told my bf about my letter to mateo abs and i need to burn it. he agreed and is understanding of mateo to a point.
im not ready to be alone. i dont have ppl excepta few guys just waiting for my call to jump my bones if i leave my bf. but i dont leave him. but they also have access to harder better drugs than pharmaceutical.
the article i attached is not by me but what i say daily for years. i know others feel this too.
wish me luck please.
http://www.youmatter.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/my-mental-illness-does-not-define-me/